
When most marketers or journalists talk about “mom bloggers,” it’s as if they’re describing some powerful-but-faceless crowd that exists solely to interact with corporate America.
The truth is that these online moms are incredibly diverse in opinions, motivations and tone. In fact, the only thing that really unites them is their connection, their commitment to one another, no matter how different they might be on a personal level.
Most days, this incredible network of support goes unnoticed by those outside the digital mom community, but the past week has shown how powerful and inspirational it can be.
A week ago today, blogger Anissa Mayhew suffered a massive stroke, one that left her struggling not only for consciousness but for survival itself.
I was in Atlanta (Anissa’s home base) the next day, when word was quickly circulating that she was in a dire situation. When I saw “PrayingForAnissa” was a trending topic on Twitter, my blood ran cold. Over the past year, Anissa and I have become good friends, and she was even one of our featured presenters at Luckie’s Marketing to the Modern Mom event last month (the photo above shows Anissa at the center of our blogger panel, with friends Mishelle "Secret Agent Mama" Lane, at left, and Lotus "Sarcastic Mom" Carroll.)

For tragedy to strike Anissa is doubly painful. Not only is she one of the most beloved and outspoken women on the Web, but her family has also overcome more adversity than anyone should have to live through. Anissa recovered from
a previous stroke in 2005, only to learn a year later that her youngest daughter had been diagnosed with leukemia. The family's struggle against cancer inspired Anissa to begin blogging at
Hope4Peyton.org.
By the time I’d learned of Anissa’s stroke, less than 24 hours after she was hospitalized, the blogger community was already in motion. Tributes, prayers and hundreds of donations poured in to help support Anissa’s husband and children.
Here are just a few of the blog posts Anissa’s friends posted to help raise awareness:
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"My Friend Anissa" by Izzymom
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"Love and Help for Anissa" by Sarcastic Mom
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"Anissa Mayhew Needs Our Help" by SomestimesParentingSucks.com
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"Come Together: Help for Anissa" by Belle of the Blog
The mom blog community continues to support Anissa’s family each day, spreading news of updates and reminding readers how they can help. Meanwhile, Anissa's husband, Peter, has done an commendable job of keeping friends up to date on Anissa's original blog,
Hope4Peyton, and each of his new posts is being shared across the Web by the family's countless supporters.
What many outsiders might not realize is that, with mom bloggers, such widespread cooperation is more often the rule than the exception. We saw it with the heart-breaking loss of
blogger Heather Spohr’s beautiful daughter, Maddie. Equally amazing was how the moms of the Web rallied to
find a kidney for the seriously ill daughter of “Domestic Diva” blogger Lisa Carroccio.
But in less dramatic ways, those of us who work with online moms see it each day as bloggers help give their many online friends emotional support and advice.
I continue to hope for Anissa daily, and I’m thrilled to hear that
she’s showing positive signs for a hard-fought recovery.
But I also hope that the marketing community is watching this unbelievable show of support, something that says more about today’s digital moms than a thousand surveys or focus groups could ever hope to illuminate.
To make a PayPal donation to help support Anissa Mayhew's family during her recovery, click here, or e-mail helpforanissa@gmail.com to learn how else you might be able to help.